Dear Mom,
You need to grow up and face the fact that I am a grown man. I understand that since I still live at home while I’m in school, that I have to follow your rules for living here. I accept that. What really pisses me off to no end is that I have to let you know every little detail about where I'm going if I go out. You can’t just let it go at “Hey Mom, I’m going out with the guys. I’ll be back late tonight.” You have to have every little detail about the trip, who I’m going with, where I’m going, why I’m going where I’m going, and how much money I intend to spend. I don’t understand why that’s any of your fucking business. You just need to be happy that I told you I’m leaving. I know, I know it’s called being a mom and you worry. I get that , what I don’t get is why if you aren’t home when I leave and I tell Dad where I’m going, and he forgets to tell you, I get a phone call from you and you’re yelling and screaming at me because I didn’t tell you where I was at. Well I don’t have to tell y you if you aren’t home, I am supposed to tell either you or Dad, and if I tell Dad and he forgets to tell you fucking deal with it and get off my back. I didn’t do anything wrong, I followed all the rules, you just need to understand that and let it go you friggin control freak. You knew that this day would come when you popped me out, you’ve hat many, many years to deal with it, SO GET OVER IT ALREADY! Your little boy has become a man and there isn’t a friggin thing you can do to change it. It’s called life, it goes on, people grow up, people die. You cope with that and move on. So move on already, I’m all grown up and you can’t change it. I love you, but you need to just realize that fact.
Love Your Son,
Grik
October 26, 2007 at 8:14 pm
Honestly, dude i’m feeling the same right now. my parents went on vacay to Savannah for 3 days and asked my sister and i to alternate staying at the house for a night. she stayed here at the freaking boring house last night,and then i was home tonight for a while after doing some errands earlier and coming back.(we both still live at home and we’re 20) my boyfriend and i made our dinner here, and then we left after letting the cats out and feeding them dinner and everything and watching some tv. and them my boyfriend wanted to go back to his house and work on his computer a bit so i went with him. my freaking parents called the house to check up on me dammit and i wasnt at the freaking house. so they chirp me up and ask me why i’m not at house and why i couldnt just obey them and do one little thing they ask after them letting me do all i want. but i was home most of the frreaking day and they wanna call me up and ask me why i couldnt do the one simple thing htey asked. it doesnt help that before this whole ordeal my sister called after getting home from work and seeing that i wasnt there asking me why she bothered to stay and why i couldnt even listen to mom and dad. and that was before mom and dad even knew. so i am so pissed right now and they are pissed and now i have to deal with their stuff when i get home from work tomorrow. if all they want is for me to be home more often, i will. i’m just sick of them thinking that just because my boyfriend has tattoos and piercings and likes rap music and drives a car with rims and works in construction that he’s some kind of lowlife scum. i love him and he’s super sweet. for some reason they think he’s controlling me and telling me to rebel against them and not come home or do what they ask. they think that he influences me to make bad decisions. i cant believe that they are treating me this way. i dont know of any other 20 year old who have this dumbass problem with parents. do i have to fucking have a kid or something before they think i’m an adult?
i think they’ve hated my boyfriend this whole (almost) 2 years and have been faking that they like him. and now my whole damn family is going to hear about this and once again, everyone is disappointed with ashley.
i say fuck it. fuck em. i wanna do what i wanna do. and i’m moving out asap.
it doesnt help that the other day i was just merely mentioning the fact that my auto insurance autopay over drafted my bank acct cause i didnt get a statement. and my mom starts freaking on me saying shit like where is all my money going and i should have plenty saved up and all this bullshit. my money isnt any of their damn business…..
thats all for now.